Frustrated with Life Circumstances

The other day, I received an email in request to know if I ever get frustrated? I took a pause to answer because I knew my response would ultimately change the trajectory of this member’s mindset. I post now, because after response, I continued to have pondering thoughts and wanted to release them! Personally, I do not experience bouts of frustration because life is circumstantial, I believe that we create and invite what we directly and indirectly will. There is never a moment of frustration with my daughter because she is an extension of me- she uses what she has to communicate and if I at any point severe the open passage for expression, I continue the cycle of childhood, of silencing and promoting the exchange of secrets with lies to fit in to the created world of non acceptance! To my Moms, Moms 2 Be and Moms in Waiting, I encourage you to take time to love on yourself, get to know her and to find what makes her feel valuable so that you can give your children pureness despite your circumstance! There is no need for frustrations with someone that depends on you for their sole existence, not in the since of life, but in the remote sense of having their hieracrchy of needs successfully met with compassion, grace, self acceptance, understanding and unconditional positive regard! To obtain this level of thinking, you have to DESIRE the outcomes of acceptance, of celebrating despite the loss and finding time to laugh in the moments that you truly want to cry!

Queen, you got this! Stay the course, you are already in PROGRESS!