Survival
MomE Club Family there has been alot of noise around this topic and coincidentally, I came across a post by @drscherina
“Some subtle signs of survival:
Eating quickly
Always rushing
Loss of perspective
Ambition feels scary
Creativity is clouded
Overstimulated by noise
Organizing during down time
Talking too fast or excessively
Mentally planning while resting
Difficulty making simple decisions
Lots to do, but don’t know where to start
But this is not the final chapter- Moms, Moms 2 Be and Moms In Waiting- YOU can heal!!!
Some subtle signs of healing
self compassion becomes easier
setting boundaries becomes easier
you start advocating for your own needs
waking up and getting out of bed is easier
having the energy to connect with people
you have a higher tolerance for discomfort
becoming more organized and decluttering
you choose healthier coping tools more often
being triggered doesn’t spiral your entire week
you’re able to experience a wider spectrum of feelings
you’re able to focus on things other than your symptoms
you have the energy and motivation to move your body
personal hygiene and taking care of yourself becomes easy, a priority
Reading through this post, I was most comforted by the word easier! MomE Club Family- remember the ease of the burden frees you a bit to do more.. and more will eventually turn into a lot! Take time for yourself! -PRIORITIZE yourself!
Healing is not about becoming someone new. It’s about unbecoming and unlearning the survival strategies that cloud you!”